Recently Carnival Cruise Lines updated their rules around personal conduct while on their ships. For some reason this has become a controversy.
Let's start with the basics. The ships belong to Carnival, they paid for them, and pay the expenses to keep them operating properly. In general, the social contract many claim exists, has held that the owner of a property has the right to set expectations for how guests behave on their property. I doubt any of us would stand by if a guest in our home got drunk and trashed the place, would we? So it seems reasonable that Carnival would be able to establish some behavioral guidelines for those who are temporarily on their ships, doesn't it? Beyond that, when you are on a boat with 3,000 other people isn't there some degree of common courtesy that should kick in? Should you not restrict your behavior to the point that it doesn't prevent others from enjoying their vacation?
So, what are these horrible rules.
1. 1 AM curfew for anyone under 17 not accompanied by an adult.
2. A minimum age for "solo cruisers" of 21 years of age.
3. A ban on "Clack Fans" in certain areas of the ship.
4. No saving pool chairs.
5. A ban on all drugs including weed.
6. A ban on Bluetooth speakers (I think limited to public places)
7. It also seems as if they've required that any request to remove automatic gratuities be handled in person.
8. Stricter enforcement of the 15/day alcoholic drink limit for those with the drink package.
9. There are rumors of a "rap ban". Given the presence of rap in popular culture since the '80s I find it hard to believe. Having said that, I personally don't enjoy much rap music and would prefer to hear more variety. I do think that it's not unreasonable, in public areas with small children, that there are certain songs (rap or otherwise) that might not be appropriate.
For some reason there is a massive backlash among certain demographics of cruisers around these seemingly commonsense rules. There are ample videos circulating of behavior that seems to more than justify this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujxmg5A2sMA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9HpZoPTMzk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSOhOYAYsKc
There are plenty of these out there, but the above are a few examples.
So, why are some black cruisers the angriest about these changes? Good question. Is there a subculture of American blacks that doesn't believe that the rules apply to them? Is there a subculture of American blacks that doesn't seem to care about how their actions affect others?
Ultimately what is about certain subcultures that seem to believe or act as if they believe that they are exempt from social norms. When I drive through certain parts of the city, I've noticed a tendency of some people to walk or ride in ways that are oblivious to others (usually with headphones). For example, the person who slowly crosses a street (legally or not) with no apparent awareness of their surroundings. Or the skateboarder who slowly weaves back and forth across an entire street as cars back up behind.
To be very clear, this IS NOT A RACE thing. It's a CULTURE thing. More accurately, it's a SUBCULTURE thing.
It is crazy to think that expecting people to behave in a public place as if they understand and respect the fact that their behavior might effect others. You know, treat others as you would like to be treated.
https://x.com/masinelije/status/1950173299704570076?s=51&t=cLq01Oy84YkmYPZ-URIMYw
It's exactly this kind of thing that I'm talking about. Watch the video and try to justify the behavior. Had a white woman done this to someone steeped in "hood culture" she'd have gotten the crap beaten out of her.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKnKzf4y0gm/?igsh=MTJlejNjbTFpMnl6Yg==